Wednesday, February 23, 2011

The end of February

This year is flying by and I'm wondering if this is how the rest of life is going to be for us. Lately I've been having a complex about turning 35 because I keep seeing people on TV who are 35 and wondering "Do I look that old?!!!" A recent example: Aileen Wuornos (you know, the serial killer, lesbian prostitute). She was 35! Yes, she had a rough life and the mullet that she sported was not really the most feminine or youthful look, but...she was 35! Jim assures me that I look just like her.

It's not just turning 35 that is freaking me out. It's that I keep thinking about college and high school and wondering how it is that it's been almost 20 years since Jim and I met. It doesn't FEEL like it's been 20 years. Life shouldn't be allowed to do this! We keep making comments like, 'When Millie is 10, we'll be in our mid-40's," moment of silence while we contemplate this and then I point out how much gray hair Jim has (mine is dyed, so you can't see it as much) and he points out that mine is thinning (thanks to Millie, I'm losing my hair by the handful these days. Not to worry..it will grow back and to make me feel better, she seems to be losing a lot of hers, too) and reminds me that I look like Aileen Wuornos.

Despite the lack of photographic evidence in this particular blog, all is well on the home front. Evie has entered the "That's Mine" phase of life and every playgroup devolves into a micromanaged tussle between 2 year olds who don't understand the concept of sharing and who don't WANT to understand either. The other day when Evie snatched a toy out of my hand while emphatically stating that it was hers, I snatched it back and, in my most whiny voice said, "NO! That's MIIIIINE!!!!" Cue the waterworks. I'm not sure it was the best way to teach a lesson, in retrospect, but I was trying to show her that it wasn't an nice thing to do. The result was that she started sobbing and saying "Miine...Miine..Miine" over and over again. I guess your mom isn't supposed to be the bad guy. Since then she has moved on to focusing all of her "that's mine" energy on her baby sister who has neither the interest or the ability to a. take Evie's things or b. defend herself. Sharing is the word of the week.

Potty training has also been a hot topic around here. Despite the purchase of a brand new shiny duck potty, which sings songs when it is used and can also be used as a stool, Evie is just not that interested. Plus she knows how to make the potty sing without actually using it, which defeats the whole purpose. Even tempting her with chocolate mini-eggs could not convince her to sit on her potty without a tantrum. After an exhausting weekend, we surrendered and will try again eventually.

Pictures to come soon. And maybe the weather will get better so we can go out and do something and I don't have to blog about what is going on in our living room all the time. So boring...

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Videos

I'll start with some comparison videos of Evie and Millie at the same age and with the same toys. Evie LOVED her maraca when she was a baby and Millie also seems to like to play with it. It is a great distraction during screaming fits!

The Bumbo is also experiencing it's second life. We haven't tried putting Millie in it with the tray yet, but she enjoys sitting in it and looking around.

I took this video of Evie giving Millie kisses while I was fixing dinner the other night. They really do love each other.

And, Evierella cleans her kitchen...all because she wants to see herself on video, cleaning her kitchen. HAH!

A week in February

February in London is not usually very warm, but we are trying our best to do some things. Unfortunately, the best day we had this week was Friday, but I forgot my camera. At least there are a few pictures and videos to share from the past week, if nothing too exciting to report.

Millie continues to grow like a weed and even did some tummy time without becoming hysterical. Lala will also be happy to know that she is now taking two baths a week (but still becoming hysterical):
Evie's Kookaburra also proves to be fun second hand (Millie's cute outfit is courtesy of Nana and Papa):
One day the sun came out and Evie wore her cool shades (thanks, Kate, Andy and Cora)!
We entertained ourselves by defacing some extra passport photos we had hanging around. Unfortunately we didn't have any spare ones of Millie to draw mustaches on, but she'll get one eventually. I especially like the one of me looking like a Mexican drug lord:
Millie can now sit in her Bumbo and has moved into the back seat of the double stroller, where she is much happier than she was when she was under the stroller in her 'cocoon'.
Here is Evie in her Valentine's Day Eve Cupcake Party attire. Blue headband (known as her 'blue crown'), heart accessories and new red wellies were selected by Evie. I made her take off the two pink tutus she was wearing before we left the house. She is getting very opinionated about her wardrobe, which leads to some ridiculous tantrums on occasion...
Both girls looked very pretty for the cupcake party we attended. Evie managed to sneak two cupcakes by charming one of the dads at the party after I told her she couldn't have a second one. She's already adept at the art of manipulation.
Finchley wasn't invited to the party, but he still looked good. I think he was a little jealous of Millie's ruffly shirt:
Sometime in the not too distant future, we are going to take some trips and spice this blog up a little, but until then we'll keep updating with the mundane. If the sun would come out, we might even venture out for some country walks or something...

Sunday, February 06, 2011

I'm feeling so happy that both kids are in bed by 7:45 and Jim is cooking dinner and I actually have time to blog again, that I'm going to blog some more!

I don't know when this picture was taken, but I think it's very sweet, despite the fact that Evie has orange food to match her orange tutu all over her face.
Being a good and helpful big sister comes naturally to Evie. I hope that she and Millie will always be best friends!
The day that this picture was taken, we rented a car and drove out to a friend's 2 year old's birthday party. On the way there, Evie was car sick, so we pulled over and cleaned her up. Luckily, she had several layers on (a coat and her orange tutu over her other clothes), but by the time we actually go to the party, she was sick again...andwe didn't get to go to the party, although she did have a quick bath and change into borrowed clothes. By the time we got home, Evie looked like this:
Car sickness agrees with her, apparently. Having her hair done by JIm, on the other hand, does not:
The acquisition of a new big girl bed had a similar deranged effect...
Here is Evie, officially handing off her crib to Millie:
And reveling in her new, awesome big girl room:
Somebody else really like Evie's new room, too:
Before the miracle that is the 7:00 bed time began to happen, we used to spend lots of quality time with Millie late at night. She was very happy for all the attention and also very awake.
Today marks the first day since Millie was born that I haven't sat on the yoga ball ONCE. Go Millie and your new good mood!!! See what a good night's sleep can do for you?!
We have a bunch of fun things coming up to look forward to so if the sleep continues and the bedtimes stay early, I will be updating the blog a lot!

An attempt to be back!

I'm not going to try to catch up on all the little things that have been missed during my break from blogging, but just will focus on the highlights. The major January EVENT was Evie's birthday, which culminated in a CINDERELLA BIRTHDAY PARTY!!!!! It was the best day of her life, I'm pretty sure.

Evie is escorted down to her birthday party by none other than Cinderella (the Welsh version):
Millie wore her Cinderella dress to the ball....uh, party...too!
A princess curtsy with Cinderella after her fabulous party (pictures of which I will spare you. There were lots of two year olds, lots of balloons, a parachute, some magic and some fairy dust...and cake!).
As you can see, Evie also has taken an interest in Snow White...and the magical healing powers of Love's first kiss (because every little girl loves her Daddy first)!
Millie loves Daddy, too (see shirt):
And, speaking of Millie, she has suddenly blossomed into a very happy baby (except for right now because I put her down in her crib for the purpose of writing this blog):

She also has decided that facing forward in the sling is the way to go. Today we took a family walk into the Heath and Millie looked out and around, until it got too windy and was nap time, at which point she was forced to face me again:
There is a lot of 'gazing lovingly' going on in this household lately. Everyone is getting into the spirit of Valentine's Day!

A family walk scowl:

As usual, on a windy day, we forgot to bring our kite, but we did enjoy looking at other people's kites. Evie was particularly interested in an octopus kite. The best part about it was hearing Evie try to say "octopus."
The red blur ran down Parliament Hill:

Future Horticulturist?

In the background there was a minor poop explosion, which had to be dealt with, so Jim and Evie broke out the infamous pink ball:

It was a nice, if slightly windy and slightly too long family walk. Here's hoping that spring weather comes to London soon! Millie wants to show off her chubby thighs!