Sunday, October 26, 2008

Wales

As a last hurrah before the baby, Jim and I took a week long trip to Wales. I have to recognize our friend Tony, who is Welch and gave us all the tips we needed about where to go. On his advice, we went to the Brecon Beacons, which is a national park in South Wales. We stayed on a farm (Alltybrain farm--google it because it's a lovely place and the owner, Rose, is wonderful!)

Anyway, here is the account of our latest adventure: Wales!

One important lesson that we should have learned a long time ago (but we are a little slow) is that one should not travel without a car on Sunday in Britain. It just complicates things. SO, of course, we made plans to arrive in Wales on Sunday. It was slightly an epic journey, as we had to take a train from London to Cardiff, then switch to a train which took us to Merthyr Tidfil (don't know if I spelled that right), then rush to get a bus which left a few minutes after our train arrived and took us to Brecon, where we then had to call a cab because in a small town like Brecon the car rental place isn't open on Sundays. Fortunately, the farm was worth the effort and when we got there we were greeted by two very friendly dogs, two horses, a pony and a multitude of chickens, ducks and guinea hens. The chickens were very eager to come inside the house.


We had never seen black ducks before.


The views from our cottage (Duck Cottage) were spectacular from every angle. Out of one window we had the horses and pony and behind them were rolling green hills dotted with 'cows that chase people'(we opted not to go for a walk in that direction). Out the other window, we look over to hills in the distance and below on sheep grazing. Rose has a beautiful garden area outside her house, where the ducks were swimming and a ram was hanging out. The chickens were ever present and we decided they thought we were going to feed them.




We were pretty tired after all the traveling, but decided to walk a little and stretch our legs. There wasn't too much shoulder on the road that runs along the farm, but we made it to the public walking trail and wandered around a little bit, enjoying our first experience of Wales. At some points, the trail was a little obstructed, but we managed to perservere!Climbing under a tree while 7 months pregnant takes mad skill.

Shadows and fall in Wales:

An alternative view of my girth. My pants actually got tighter during the week we were in Wales, which was pretty impressive. We also spent many hours watching my stomach make movements worthy of the Alien movie. This baby is active!

On our second day, the weather wasn't so great and we needed to rent the car and buy the groceries, so we headed into the small town of Brecon. The car rental was a little bit of a debacle. Once you've been in the UK for two years you are supposed to get a UK license. We haven't quite been here two years officially, but Jim didn't know about that rule so he said he had been her OVER two years (thinking that would make him seem to be a more competent UK driver). On the contrary...they told him they couldn't rent to him. So I put on my most innocent face and said that I hadn't been here as long as he has (which is true)and managed to secure the rental under my name. Lesson learned: never disclose that you LIVE in the UK when renting a car in the UK and use your foreign accent to your advantage.

Leaves on a pond in Brecon:


Jim in a coal train. Yeehaw!I didn't read the description very thoroughly, but there was something about the longest railway in the world posted next to this cart.


Here's an interesting fact. Hedgerows are made by trimming trees so that they grow sideways. The branches make the hedge. We never knew that before, but now we are VERY familiar with hedges, as all of the extremely narrow country roads in this part of Wales are closed in by hedgerows, which makes it incredibly challenging to use the road as a two-way bypass. Another challenge is sharing the road with hedgetrimmers, which are huge tractors used to trim the hedges. They take up the entire road, so when there isn't a slight shoulder or off road, it's necessary to back down the road until you find one. We spent a lot of our time backing down narrow country roads, as tis the season for hedge trimming, apparently.


On Tuesday, the sun came out:



and Jim had to tie my shoes for me because I couldn't get to them myself:


We decided to do some walking through some woods and then over some moorlands. Our first walk was a 'waterfall walk.' (please note, concerned parents, that these were pregnant lady level walks...pretty short and easy!) We parked our mountain conquering, lime green vw beetle and headed up the trail.

Jim was in photographer mode.

And, as usual, I was complying with all photography requests and taking things very seriously:

The waterfalls were really impressive and beautiful and we felt like we were in Norway when we walked through the mossy woods.



This picture was an experiment with shutter speeds (obviously taken by Jim. I'm not that high tech):


This is my interpretation of a "moss monster" (as requested by Jim)


Jim loves to take pictures and he also loves to read maps. Here he is trying to identify our exact location on this hiking map of Wales.


Our second walk of the day took us out of the woods and the waterfalls and across the moors, which, in this case, were rolling hills spotted with haybales and with various dips down to ponds and horses.

We had a picnic and as I was trying to sit down on the ground, my center of gravity failed me and I toppled over. We forgot to bring hats, but my awesome green Tulane sweatshirt (courtesy of Kate and Andy) kept me toasty, despite making me look like a gnome.

Jim clambered onto a haybale.

I wasn't so successful.

The scenery was beautiful, as usual.


We walked slowly up a very big hill. The views down were worth all the huffing and puffing.


At the top, we were higher than this military plane! There is a lot of military action in this part of Wales and parts of the area are marked on the map as "danger zones" because that's where they do a lot of military training. This is another interesting fact that I did not know and if Jim wasn't so knowledgeable about military things, I would have thought the dangerous areas were dangerous because of avalanches or something. Jim is smart.


Now it's time for the most important part of this blog: MY BIRTHDAY!!! We didn't bring the birthday hat with us, but I still got to do what I wanted. I slept in a little and was greeted with a warm and toasty and wonderfully colorful Welsh wool blanket that Jim got me. Kate and Andy also got me a really nice blanket and the baby got the awesome Kate quilt and ANOTHER quilt made by Earlene (I will take a picture of it at a later time). So we all will be able to wrap up and keep warm.

I also got another really great gift from Jim: a prenatal massage. So I felt very spoiled. And then...he cooked me breakfast! There was much rejoicing:

We had french toast, bananas and grapefruit. With cinnamon and sugar and lyle's syrup (which is awesome and delicious and everyone should get some).


After all that food, we had no other option but to go for a walk. But first we wanted to visit a castle. Alas, it was closed (but JIm still took some pictures):


This pretty much sums up the driving experience in rural Wales. We were pulled over first for a hedge trimmer and then for a 'lorry' (the UK term for 18 wheeler. It took me a while to figure out that they were one in the same. I kept expecting a lorry to be something like a milk truck.)This road was wide compared to some of the others we drove through.

My birthday walk was to and from a reservoir. It was a beautiful day and I was feeling very happy!

Jim was happy, too. The dam behind him was our destination. It is famous because Prince Harry repelled down it some years ago as part of an adventure camp. As a result, there are a lot of signs around that remind you that repelling down the dam is strictly forbidden.


There are a lot of sheep in Wales. Even the occasional black sheep! We never grew tired of making 'black sheep' puns while wandering through Wales.


When we got to the dam, Jim preferred the reservoir side, while I enjoyed peering over the actual dam.



Punk sheep:

Grazing sheep:

And,as usual, we picked up a cat along the way:


Alas, all good things must come to an end, but my birthday wasn't over until we went out for a yummy dinner with delicious desserts (creme brulee for me and chocolate fondant with ice cream for Jim and me). We forgot to take pictures inside, but don't I look satisfied here?


The day after my birthday, the weather once again got bad and then it got cold, so we decided to head to Tony's other required destination: Hay-on-Wye (Wye is the river...not sure about the Hay part). This is famous book town where there is a huge book festival every year. According to our Wales book, the book town is totally booked for the book festival (har har) until 2011 or something. It wasn't the book festival while we were there, though, so we could peruse the village amongst a relatively small crowd.

The River Wye. On a small trail along the River, there were great leaves to kick and shuffle through.


I think this may have been the day that I became suddenly aware that my maternity jeans were cutting off my circulation:

When we walked into Hay-On-Wye, we were surrounded by honesty bookstores--outdoor bookstores, where the buyer is trusted to put his/her payment into a jar. It's a pretty cool concept and we enjoyed the outdoor bookshelves:

Inspired by impending parenthood, we ended up getting the Oxford Anthology of nursery rhymes (totally inappropriate for reading to a small child as it contains the original versions of a lot of the poems, which are pretty violent and bawdy. We thought it was hilarious and were entertained for hours.) We also got Grimm's fairy tales and a really old Dr. Doolittle book with great pictures.


After a long day out in the wet and chilly weather, Jim built us a fire:


And there was nothing left to do but play a few intense games of Spit. There was money involved. I won 3 pounds.



On our final day in Wales, we ended with another reservoir walk. I forgot to to take pictures, so the pictures are all, unfortunately, of me. Jim was there, too, though!


We think maybe these were wild ponies...but we could just be having romantic notions.



We're back in London now and Wales is fading into a distant memory. Jim is already sleep deprived and I have allowed irritating people affect my mood (and then made the mistake of taking the bus with a bunch of groceries, which was a nightmare. At least no one made me get out of the 'seats for people who have difficulty standing' because I think I was giving off 'I'm pregnant and angry' death glares). Ah London. We love it anyway.

Friday, October 17, 2008

Halloween Costume Research

I have finally motivated to start working on my cockroach costume, and have some ideas about the cockroach mask that I want to make, but I have to say that researching the costume (which involves looking at up close pictures of roaches to try to get an idea of how their faces are really shaped) is totally grossing me out. I also might be too lazy to figure out the extra legs dilemma and might have to just go as a maimed cockroach.

Thursday, October 16, 2008

My talented sister

The other day a package arrived from Kate and Andy with lots of fun little baby gifts in it. There was a tinkling stuffed frog, which Jim particularly likes the sound of, some really fun baby booties shaped like lizards or turtles, a hat with matching booties and a beautiful baby quilt. We were touched by the gift, but when were told by Kate that she MADE the quilt we went from touched to seriously impressed. This quilt is much cooler than anything you could find in a store and Kate MADE it! I'm not sure where she got this crafty gene (maybe from our grandmother?) but she can do all kinds if cool things like make funky costumes, award winning beaded bird houses, and now quilting. I think she could actually start her own baby quilting business and make a small fortune (based on my newfound knowledge of how expensive everything related to maternity wear and babies is). Behold...the quilt! (and stay tuned in a few months for pictures of our baby on the quilt. I'm going to do my best to make sure there aren't any pictures of cats on the quilt before then. The quilt is off limits to cats!!!)

Hooray for Meg and Dan!

After a fun visit with Jackie and Piotrek, we were then lucky enough to have a visit from Meg and Dan on their way through London to various destinations (starting with America for some weddings). It was kind of weird hosting them in the flat that used to be theirs, but really fun to have them in town! They are already seeming very worldly after traveling for a couple of months and their next big stop is Africa, where they'll go on a safari and then volunteer in an orphanage. Very cool.

Jack was VERY happy to see his parents and he and Dan had some cat conversations. Both cats spent both nights with Dan and Meg, who are much more interesting than we are apparently.

They claimed that our sofa bed is more comfortable than most beds they have been sleeping in lately, but they may have been just being polite.


On their second day, we went out to see Kate and Simon and their week old baby Nelly. She was very small and sweet and mostly sleeping while we were there. Her parents were incredibly calm and happy...and I had my usual anxiety attack when around tiny babies response. We only have three more months until we'll have our own tiny baby and I hope it's true that some maternal instinct kicks in because at this point I have no idea what to expect.

Simon and Nelly:

Meg and Nelly:

Dan and Nelly:

Kate and Nelly:


After meeting Nelly, we headed back to the house for some BBQ. Dan started things off and Jim jumped in to help when he got home from work. There isn't a light in our garden, so headlamps are essential.


Unfortunately, all good times must come to an end and Meg and Dan's departure coincided with my once a week day at work, which made it extra crappy. Luckily, we'll see them again in a couple of months at Christmas.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Jackie and Piotrek come to visit!

Last Christmas, Jim and I got on the plane to fly back to London and lo and behold there was our friend Jackie, who, it turns out, lives in Manchester (we had been out of touch, obviously). Since then we have talked about getting together and finally it happened! Jackie and her new fiancee, Piotrek came for a visit!

One of the first things we did was go to the Hampstead crepe stand and get many, many crepes. So excited were they about the crepes, that Jackie and Piotrek got TWO each: one sweet and one 'savoury' (that's how they refer to 'not sweet' here in England). They then challenged us to visit the crepe stand frequently, sample all the crepe variations, and let them know which ones were the very best. Great plan!

Here's Jackie with an abundance of crepes:

And everyone enjoying their crepes AND the beautiful weather we were having this weekend:


With full bellies, we headed up the high street and made our way to Hampstead Heath for a leisurely (VERY leisurely because we were feeling slightly heavier than we felt before) walk through the park.


This walk was right up Jim's alley because not only were we going at a leisurely pace, but we also stopped and lazed around in a vast field. While in the field, we also attracted about four dogs, which was kind of funny. We must have smelled nice or something because the dogs were drawn to us.


We swung by the Kenwood House. (Breakthrough! I know how to get there without getting hopelessly lost now!) And then we headed to the Spaniards Inn to have some afternoon refreshments:


After a rest and some more digesting, Piotrek and Jackie took us to South Kensington for our first experience of Polish food. It was very dense and my favorite part was dessert: Apple Streudle! (with ice cream) It was a very food filled day.

We love friends visiting!

Growth

That was then (July, 4 months):


This is now (October, 7 months):


Whoah. Nice hair.

This is not photoshopped

This weekend, our friends Jackie and Piotrek were here and Jackie is allergic to cats, so the kitties had to spend the weekend camped out in the conservatory. In the process, they appear to have bonded because, for the first time ever we found them like this: